Masculine Appreciation: Something About Men That Keeps Me Motivated

Things I'm Grateful For About the Masculine

There’s a reason I remain devoted to the masculine.

Healthy men carry a certain genius for clarity, focus, and accountability that, if I follow it, listen to it, and learn from it…I get encoded with it.

I can then navigate the practical world of money, economy, labor, and structure with an attitude of “YES..I can do this!!” instead of ‘Fuck this, I’m a woman in a man’s world and it SUCKS!! lol

I can lean into men and male systems with receptivity. Heed the nurturing fatherly energy that teaches a woman to invest in herself, her dreams, her business.

Many women have never had healthy masculinity shine light on them, promote them in the world, believe in their ‘queen.’ This is the rightful, healthy ‘king’ in men that wants women to shine. He has generosity of spirit, warmth, and light-courage.

King Research

In my research of kings, I found out that there was one common theme among all ancient rulers in Mesopotamia, Egypt, Native American tribes, and Asia- they all used a symbol of a circle with a cross, and a center ‘point.’

They divided the land into 4 quadrants (or in some cases 2) and always had some kind of mound, hill, or mountain in the center. God spoke to them there.

God delivered Divine law to men, and men listened.

Only after a man heard and embodied Divine law, only after he applied it to himself, would he then enforce it onto his people.

That was some major accountability, integrity, and light masculine leadership! 🙂

Nowadays…

This kingship is rare today.

It’s more common to see women trauma-bonding with shadow masculine. He controls through criticism, and projects his own insecurity onto her. She rejects, shames, or hides her queen.

Some women go the other way- they ONLY connect with women and leave men out entirely. I saw a woman doing this on YouTube. Her channel was viral and she was saying ‘Men only troll and lurk but women share and create community!’ as if all women were ‘good’ and all men were ‘bad.’

A more accurate way to say it would’ve been ‘insecure men and women lurk/ troll, but healthy men AND women support, share, and build community.’

Too much feminine ‘empowerment’ makes women a little delulu.

For women to reject the healthy masculine is like rejecting daylight, warmth, fathers, or civilization…provision from mature masculinity has helped me trust myself and navigate the real world with much more efficiency and confidence.

I continue to admire and appreciate it.

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If you’re a man reading this and you’d like to activate more of your own inner king, I invite you to ask yourself:

What is the center of my universe?
Can I hear God/ The Divine there?
If not, what needs to change?

If you’d like to explore your inner king more deeply and hire me as your mage, you can begin HERE.

Thanks and much love!

Xo,
Tara