Thank you Tara, very beautiful. Most of all, I feel you‘re honoring men deeply. Listening to you I sense so much appreciation for my gender - that alone is very healing ❤️🩹
Well I agree. Foot-in-mouth-it-is and/or weird behavior almost always reared its ugly head around a stunning woman. I always felt at ease when around a woman who wasn’t all that attractive (physically). My confidence can get a little wonky -either on the side of arrogance or on the side of hyper self-consciousness. Sometimes I’d get lucky and blindly strike some humor- but that was uncontrolled and random. Dork. Goober. Childish. Dating websites were better for me. My head could spin and spin without liability. Haha
Most people have moved out of the narcissistic phase of their lives by the time that they reach 30 or so. But not all. Some take it to the grave.
The rest of us, who have real, meaningful, long-term relationships, or maybe are blessed with children, know that an honorable life, a life worth living, is a life spent in service to others.
I’m not sure if it’s actually a worse situation, but I often experience the inverse. Around very attractive women, I find that conversing and enjoying each other’s company is much easier. Often times they are taken, or I just don’t feel like I could be with them, so I really just enjoy their presence and talking. Meanwhile, when I interact with women “in my league” or that I even find unattractive, everything I do feels unnatural. Conversations are drawn out, difficult to carry, and unpleasant.
I guess it’s the same issue, the “stakes” are just reversed in my mind. But it’s frustrating.
Thank you Tara, very beautiful. Most of all, I feel you‘re honoring men deeply. Listening to you I sense so much appreciation for my gender - that alone is very healing ❤️🩹
Thank you Sir🌹 I appreciate that.
So good. Thank you
I would love to live stream with u
Money post Tara. Very very helpful.
Thank you!💗
Well I agree. Foot-in-mouth-it-is and/or weird behavior almost always reared its ugly head around a stunning woman. I always felt at ease when around a woman who wasn’t all that attractive (physically). My confidence can get a little wonky -either on the side of arrogance or on the side of hyper self-consciousness. Sometimes I’d get lucky and blindly strike some humor- but that was uncontrolled and random. Dork. Goober. Childish. Dating websites were better for me. My head could spin and spin without liability. Haha
Thanks for sharing that, Robert. I appreciate it😊
The rules for dating out of your league: 1) get a job, 2) get a car 3) move out of your parents basement. Always works 100%
Most people have moved out of the narcissistic phase of their lives by the time that they reach 30 or so. But not all. Some take it to the grave.
The rest of us, who have real, meaningful, long-term relationships, or maybe are blessed with children, know that an honorable life, a life worth living, is a life spent in service to others.
Very well said. That is the ethic that I was raised with and which I’m trying to teach to my grandchildren.
Does she realize she has a Butter face?
lol dude fuq
I’m not sure if it’s actually a worse situation, but I often experience the inverse. Around very attractive women, I find that conversing and enjoying each other’s company is much easier. Often times they are taken, or I just don’t feel like I could be with them, so I really just enjoy their presence and talking. Meanwhile, when I interact with women “in my league” or that I even find unattractive, everything I do feels unnatural. Conversations are drawn out, difficult to carry, and unpleasant.
I guess it’s the same issue, the “stakes” are just reversed in my mind. But it’s frustrating.
What? What kind of man is afraid of women because of their beauty? That's brainwashed society for you.
Acting out of character is a question of personality, giving time reduces the objectivity and brings back the subjectivity.
School does the opposite in education, we call it competition, not fittedness.
The teaching is of not fitting in, but out fitting the rational, linear mind.
“The king inside all men”? Is there a Queen inside all women?
This man’s confidence and self-esteem seem to be externally sourced. He’s allowing others to determine his self-worth.
If a person, attractive or unattractive, offers him nothing in the way of acceptance, then he should offer them the same in return, and move on.
I ain't seeing much.
Except more probs.
Poor soul.
I don’t have this problem, as I don’t give a shit what a woman thinks of me, regardless of their looks. They simply aren’t important.