By default if you call the show about your partner the assumption is that they are cheating. If a partner of either gender believe this, most relationships are at a point of no return. The purpose of the show is to abuse the victim bring them public shame. As you say there is no thought for an innocent truthful explanation.
I was in the situation with my partner/wife but in a different way.
I worked for a transportation company and she understands what my job title was from the very beginning when I applied and what I was hired to do. worked and drove long hours of the day and night, after everything I was accused of cheating and being out late. I explained that the job I was hired to do is what is putting food on the table and paying the bills and she was okay with it. I even gave her the freedom to start seeing or dating other people. This included girls or guys, she agreed to all of this and she never complained or said no to this, she accepted and we carried on with everything.
Eventually and unfortunately I was injured and became a stay at home father.
Just for more on this happening to me, after everything that happened yes we did have a long talk about everything. Yes including opening up our relationship, yes she is seeing and dating someone. Yes she is sexually intimate with them and she has let me do the same thing. We have been together for nearly 28 years and openly happy.
I just wanted to say that after this we talked about everything as I said because their were things that she needed and wanted to experience.
I am going to be completely honest you have to communicate with each other before you consider jumping into this lifestyle.
Communication is very important and the two individuals have to be on the same page with this. My partner and I talked about everything and communicated about the what If's do's don'ts. And yes it's not for everyone but if you decide to do this that is between the both of you.
Wow, that is some serious set-up and ambush feeding into negative bias and prejuidice self-sabotaging narratives of the woman and the DJs sounds like. No wonder it hit your heart like it did. Really underscores how people can create their own suffering.
By default if you call the show about your partner the assumption is that they are cheating. If a partner of either gender believe this, most relationships are at a point of no return. The purpose of the show is to abuse the victim bring them public shame. As you say there is no thought for an innocent truthful explanation.
I have enough problem without imagining having more
I was in the situation with my partner/wife but in a different way.
I worked for a transportation company and she understands what my job title was from the very beginning when I applied and what I was hired to do. worked and drove long hours of the day and night, after everything I was accused of cheating and being out late. I explained that the job I was hired to do is what is putting food on the table and paying the bills and she was okay with it. I even gave her the freedom to start seeing or dating other people. This included girls or guys, she agreed to all of this and she never complained or said no to this, she accepted and we carried on with everything.
Eventually and unfortunately I was injured and became a stay at home father.
Just for more on this happening to me, after everything that happened yes we did have a long talk about everything. Yes including opening up our relationship, yes she is seeing and dating someone. Yes she is sexually intimate with them and she has let me do the same thing. We have been together for nearly 28 years and openly happy.
I wouldn’t do that kind of situation myself but glad it works for you.
I just wanted to say that after this we talked about everything as I said because their were things that she needed and wanted to experience.
I am going to be completely honest you have to communicate with each other before you consider jumping into this lifestyle.
Communication is very important and the two individuals have to be on the same page with this. My partner and I talked about everything and communicated about the what If's do's don'ts. And yes it's not for everyone but if you decide to do this that is between the both of you.
Wow, that is some serious set-up and ambush feeding into negative bias and prejuidice self-sabotaging narratives of the woman and the DJs sounds like. No wonder it hit your heart like it did. Really underscores how people can create their own suffering.
Yeah..definitely negative bias/ prejudice and self sabotage at its best..well said.
Intimacy is a sacred covenant between souls. By its very nature this asks that the secrets of sharing souls stay intimate.
Guess when these sacred secrets use the public media...
Thank you. I never cheat. Omg.
Yes, absolutely!