Love the perspective here. What works for me is to not overthink things with someone I am developing a connection with. In Taoist parlance, it’s about practicing Wu Wei.
This is such a pivitol insight and knowing there are three parties in relationship, it's the first offspring. Eventhough it's not visible doesn't make it intagible or not resonant with what both pour into the relationship. The presence and signature is most definitely shared and reflective of so many things for each individual. In a very absolute sense, if the dynamic is in weird, grey, or slippery territory, the third part helps (those not bullshitting themselves) to see and know when challenging coversations are needed. Thanks for sharing what was coming through you. So much wiser for it.
Love the perspective here. What works for me is to not overthink things with someone I am developing a connection with. In Taoist parlance, it’s about practicing Wu Wei.
This is such a pivitol insight and knowing there are three parties in relationship, it's the first offspring. Eventhough it's not visible doesn't make it intagible or not resonant with what both pour into the relationship. The presence and signature is most definitely shared and reflective of so many things for each individual. In a very absolute sense, if the dynamic is in weird, grey, or slippery territory, the third part helps (those not bullshitting themselves) to see and know when challenging coversations are needed. Thanks for sharing what was coming through you. So much wiser for it.